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“For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.” John 3:16 NLT
There is nothing more valuable to God than us. That is why He sent Jesus. He sacrificed the most important thing in order to gain us back. God knew that His investment would result in the highest return, but it had to cost Him something in the beginning and for a brief moment in time, knowing full well that it was worth the sacrifice.
J.M. Barrie, author of Peter Pan once said: “Dreams do come true, if only we wish hard enough. You can have anything in life if you will sacrifice everything else for it.”
If we are honest with ourselves, sacrifice is not something we like to hear or do. If you are like me, sometimes you find yourself trying to figure out a way to not have to give something up (like my time, money, or energy) in order to maintain what is valuable. I think that often times we make compromises in regard to what we really want in order to avoid making sacrifices to keep what is most valuable to us. It ends up costing us more in the long run.
My wife and I have 3 kids currently attending Calvin Christian. Aside from my relationship with Christ and my wife, there aren’t many things in life that are more valuable than my children. As a parent, I believe that I have a responsibility of raising them to be successful adults in all areas of life. For my wife and I, the spiritual and educational aspect of raising our kids is very important. That is the main reason we chose to send our children to Calvin Christian - because Calvin does both well.
I still remember the moment that solidified that decision for the 2 of us. We were attending a back to school night when our oldest son was in first grade. I remember his teacher telling the parents how she would come in every morning before the students arrived and stand behind one of the little desks and pray for that child for 30 minutes. At that moment, I realized that what was already valuable to us as parents, was also valuable to this school. We were both sold, committed and were determined to maintain this valuable relationship with Calvin Christian. Now mind you, this was before we had 2 other children, not fully realizing the cost that it would take to maintain this relationship. And every time it got challenging, and almost seemed like it would not work out having another attend, we reminded ourselves of what is valuable to us and what we are willing to do to maintain it. It does get hard, but we know that this sacrifice will have it’s reward, and most importantly that God will help us. The best part is, that He has helped us every step of the way.
“What you compromise to gain, you will eventually lose”. This was something that a former employer told me when I was a younger man. How true it is, even to this day. How many times in my own life have I compromised just to save some money, time or whatever? It ended up costing me more in the end. We all have done it and have some regrets as well. That is why it is important to continue to sacrifice to keep having what is valuable.
I leave you with this thought. Philippians 3:14 tells us to press on towards the goal. No matter how hard the sacrifice might be, keep it, because the rewards for that sacrifice will eventually outweigh the cost of it.
This is a repost from 2015
When my parents sent me to Christian school, there were a number of reasons they made that decision. One reason was because they knew that I would have Christian teachers as models and that they would be teaching from a Biblical worldview. The other reason was because the school was academically good.
A generation later, I'd have to say that these were probably the same reasons my wife and I decided to send our children to Christian school as well.
In the last fifteen years, I think there has been an addition to the primary reasons parents choose to send their children to Christian school.
Our country and our world, has become increasingly unfriendly to Christians, if not blatantly anti-Christian. The Judeo/Christian culture that guided the morals and laws of our country are being eroded. People who hold the values consistent with a Biblical worldview are considered to be on the periphery and not consistent with the values of the culture. Political leaders and other leaders, who claim strong Christian beliefs, are perceived negatively and are often marginalized.
Not only does this mean that Christian school graduates must have great knowledge of God's’ world and a strong personal commitment in their personal life, but they must also have greater tools to defend their faith in their adult years. In addition to having knowledge of all the subjects they learned in school, they must also have clear answers to difficult questions they will face.
With an increasing number of Calvin graduates choosing non-Christian colleges where they might grow in this area, they will be in classes with professors, who in most cases, think Christianity is for weak-minded people.
How do we deal with this as parents and Christian school supporters? We must continue having teachers who not only teach knowledge but also help students articulate their knowledge of all areas of life in a Christian way and are ready to defend their faith as consistent with their knowledge and academic life.
Christian school is not the only answer to this problem but it is a huge part of preparing students for a world increasingly unfriendly to the Christian faith. That is why I value Christian education now more than ever. I want Calvin to be here for the next generation. I want Calvin to have teachers in the classroom who help students know our Creator and His world as well as to understand that their Christian faith is consistent with an academic life.
This year I have English, Psychology,and Photography classes. These are technically different subjects, but you would be shocked at the overlap. You may not like reading. You may not like writing. You can even hate English class if you want. But without a doubt, you use what I teach every single day. What I teach is not a list of authors, dates, or literary elements. What I teach is analysis.
Day one in English, we don't jump right into the texts, but instead start with something each student interacts with every day, even if they don't read novels for fun: music. By comparing music videos and determining the meaning of these works based on the lyrics as well as the tone and visual elements selected by the producers, students recognize the importance of being mindful of every message that comes their way whether from the radio, a commercial, Netflix, or our next novel. Only then do we go on to ask the big questions of the classic texts we grapple with and see how they align with the ultimate truths of scripture: What is the nature of God? Of man? What has gone wrong with the world? How can we be saved? What is the purpose of our life?
Some novels demonstrate accurately the nature of man, but fail to determine how we can be saved. Some show success in a particular lifestyle, but how this dead ends into unforeseen side effects. Every text has some truth in it, but their answers to life's big questions leads to a wide variety of implications which can lead to unfulfilling and hopeless ends without being able to ground this truth on scripture and what God our creator defines about us. Students must be able to analyze this for themselves. They will not be in my classroom forever.
In psychology, analysis is even less subtle. Every personality theory or clinical therapist asks the same questions we ask in literature - What is the nature of man? What has gone wrong? How do we be saved? What even are our goals in treatment? Behavioral psychologists seek to change behavior, cognitive therapists diagnose and control issues in patterns of thought, psychoanalysts look for hidden motives from past trauma and assume healing is through relationship only, humanists think the answer lies inside each one of us if we can just be heard and reach our potential, many therapists seek medicines to cure all ills as mental imbalances. Everyone asks the same questions, and many have elements of truth. After all, God created the body, and the mind and in a fallen world, there are a million ways things can go wrong. But ultimately, who knows man like the Creator of man Himself? If we can start from a foundation of knowing man's sin, value, and hope, the entire trajectory leads us to a new, Biblical analysis with eternal implications as we look at even the most severe mental illnesses and appreciate anew the characteristics God created us with.
Every photographer is an analyzer of the world as well. I love how differently the students look at the campus after touring it through the lens of a camera, considering different angles and elements of photography and composition as they capture it. Many photos can hit the mark of employing line, repetition, or the rule of thirds. But the greatest photographs tell stories. It is the emotion in the eyes, it is the grandeur of the scene, it is the scope of experiences shown that result in photography being the art form it is. Every image tells a story in a powerful way that the saying would have us believe is "worth a thousand words."
As representatives of God in this world, should we not be versed in how to use this power of photography? Should we not be able to analyze the messages that come to us in every work of literature or film and present our own knowledge and hope to the world using these same mediums? Can we ignore the hurting and confused who seek help from psychotherapy professionals and cry out for meaning and hope? We cannot. And so my classes will continue to use the same priceless skills in every discipline; analysis is everywhere.
When I was in high school youth group, we got to play a game called “Bigger and Better.” It is a team building exercise that asks each team to start with an insignificant item like a paper clip, go out into the community, and trade up the item to something bigger and better. The goal is to keep upgrading the object until the time runs out. Each group then returns, and the winner is the group that traded up to the biggest and best item. It is a fun game; however, it teaches people to believe in a logical fallacy.
Assuming something is better simply because it is bigger is erroneous thinking. It was incorrect thinking when David fought Goliath, and it is incorrect thinking today. There are all kinds of things that are absolutely not made better by increasing their size. For example, nobody thinks that having big bills is an improvement. Swallowing big pills? Sorry, I prefer my medicine in tiny pill format. I’ve never had kidney stones before, but people assure me that bigger is not better. I’m also quite thankful that medical tools have been scaled down to microscopic sizes. Surgeries have gotten far less invasive as a result. If the entire world bought into the lie that bigger is better, then things like the Tiny House Revolution wouldn’t exist either. There are other examples of how smaller is better, and school size is a key example. Small schools have distinct advantages over large schools.
Recently, I think it has become fashionable to believe that going to a big high school gives students more opportunities. To be fair, there is some truth to that statement. Big schools do offer things that small schools don’t offer; however, small schools offer just as many student opportunities. The key is that a small school like Calvin is offering things that big schools are unable to offer. For example, small schools have much more freedom to innovate and implement new programs. Calvin Christian’s spring interim sessions are a good example of this kind of innovation. Students are able to study photography while canoeing down the Colorado River, study animals while learning from zookeepers at the San Diego Zoo, and study sound and light production from industry professionals. Being small also allows Calvin to take the entire student body on a multi-day retreat.
A smaller school size has day-to-day strengths that enhance the on campus experience that extends beyond the big, annual events. A small school gives students access to each other on a daily basis. This builds in a sense of camaraderie and community that is absent from a 3,000 student campus. A powerful sense of belonging occurs when everybody knows your name. That deep intimacy was even mainstreamed in the popular culture industry in the title sequence song of the show Cheers. Go ahead, sing it. You know you want to.
“Sometimes you want to go
Where everybody knows your name.”
Calvin students know each other, and Calvin’s teachers know their students. Being small means that each teacher gets years of contact time with a student. That builds in a real sense of investment for that teacher. A Calvin student isn’t just a number passing through a classroom for only a single semester. That student is a child of God that the teacher gets to help build and mold over several classes and years.
Finally, a smaller school gives each and every student on campus the chance to try the various programs that the school offers. If a student wants to be a part of the choir, soccer team, debate club, musical, etc., that student can absolutely find a place in those programs regardless of previous experience and talent. This variety of opportunity creates students that are well rounded, diverse, and knowledgeable about a variety of their potential future talents.
Calvin Christian School is a small school, and that is a good thing. I’m a graduate of Calvin Christian, and I have never once regretted being in a place where everybody knew my name. If a family is going to base a school choice on size alone, then they believe that size matters. That’s okay as long as there is a realization that the small can be mightier than the large. I think King David would agree.